If the ethos of this gay marriage legislation is to better integrate gays into society, then shouldn’t we stop saying patronizing things like ‘yayyyy first gay wedding!’ ‘Omigod! Three gay weddings this month!!!!’? It’s disingenuous, is it not? No one likes weddings, and by acting like you like gay weddings more you keep perpetuating the same problem of divisiveness. I’ve made this post about like 6 different things in the past, and I’m making it again because this is the new ‘I’m progressive!’ wankfest and it’s obnoxious. You’re not progressive, you’re in fact kind of a scrub.





